Tired of boys

This weekend was mostly related to boys.

On Friday, I met up with St*eve and his friend at TW's bar. Thier lawyer friend was buying drinks. I had a really good time because it was nice having a few drinks and some conversation. Afterwards, I felt really good because I could potentially be starting a mature relationship. However, St*eve almost ruined it by calling me later because he wanted to come over. He knew I had to leave the bar at 10pm to tend to my sisters, so I was a little annoyed when he tried to invite himself over.

The next day we went to a movie, Four Brothers. It was a 4:15pm movie, and later we went back to his house where he cooked fresh shrimp and potatos. It was yummy. We also watched Million Dollar Baby; that's a good movie. I'd like to watch it again because I was a little distracted by the kissing and eating that went on. I was turned off by this point because he tried to go up my shirt and into my pants. I've known this guy for a week, and he already wants to get down and dirty. He tried to put in another movie, but I told him I wanted to go home. On the way back, he asked me if I was tired of him already. I replied that I don't like to rush things and I don't like to be rushed. His response was "there's no rush."

Those words would prove to be wrong Sunday night. He called and here is how part of the conversations went:

St*eve: "Don't be surprised if I try to have sex with you."
Me: [Surprised laughter at his boldness] "Well, don't be surprised if I don't let you have sex with me."
"I would be surprised."
"Well, now you won't have to be since I warned you before hand."

I told him that I didn't know him that well, and that I have to be comfortable with someone. He hoped that I was comfortable with him, but I explained that I've only known him for a little while, so I couldn't possibly be comfortable at this point. Although the night before, I mentioned no rushing, it doesn't seem like he understands the concept. I'm really turned off, so when I talk to him again, I'll let him know that if he's looking for a sure sex partner, he can start looking some where else.

Remember that G*ian guy, half italian half belizean? Well, Sunday night/Monday morning my brother comes into my room at 3:30am with my cell phone. This G*ian kid is calling me, and I haven't spoken to him in 2 weeks! I tell Junior that I don't want to answer the phone and quickly go back to sleep. In morning I check the message, and to my surprise, he's called to apologize for making me mad. He really wants to hang out because he really enjoyed spending time with me. I was flattered and glad that he called. I ended up talking to him last night, and told him the reason I got mad was because that one night he was too forceful and when a girl says no, or at least when I say no, I mean it. I'm not sure how he took that. He said thanks for telling him, but then there was some silence so I changed the subject. We didn't talk long before I told him I needed to go to bed.

Right now, I'm tired of dealing with boys.